Overview
This week’s Cornerstone Connections lesson invites teens to examine what it means to remain faithful to God when standing for truth comes at a personal cost. Through the experiences of courageous believers and the supporting Scripture passages, students explore how God strengthens His people to face opposition with conviction, humility, and grace. The lesson emphasizes that faithfulness is demonstrated through daily choices to trust God, obey His Word, and rely on His power rather than personal strength. As participants reflect on the challenges of living out their faith in today’s world, they are encouraged to develop the courage to stand for what is right while pointing others to the hope found in Jesus.
Scripture
James 4:6
Discussion Video
Lesson 1
SCRIPTURE PASSAGES
OVERVIEW
1 Samuel 16:7 tells us that God does not look at the outward appearance but looks at the heart. In our society, how important are outward appearances? Very important or the make-up and plastic surgery industries wouldn’t be billion-dollar businesses. Which way is better—God’s or the world’s? Our lesson today will focus on what God’s way looks like.
OPENING ACTIVITY: FEELINGS
Fill a paper bag with the following (or make up your own list):
- Rock
- Twig
- Smooth leaf
- Pine cone, acorn, or seed pod
- Cotton ball
- Gummy worm
- Lego piece
- Small bag filled with Jell-O
Give each of your students paper and a writing implement.
Without looking, have each of your students reach into the bag and feel around. After they have felt around for 30 seconds, have them make a list of the items they recognized in the bag.
QUESTIONS
- What was it like reaching into a bag without knowing what was inside?
- Describe the grossest thing inside the bag.
- How did your trust or lack of trust in your teacher affect how you felt about reaching inside the bag?
- What kind of comparisons can be made between this experience and your faith experience?
TRANSITION
God created a perfect home for Adam and Eve. However, sin changed that. God wanted Adam and Eve to never know what it was like to feel death or fear, but that didn’t happen. Since then, people have had to choose whom they serve and how they live. Some live big extravagant lifestyles without caring who they hurt or trample. Others follow a different path and choose to live a life after God’s plan. So what is God’s plan? How should the Biblical principle of humility affect how one lives?
BIBLE STUDY GUIDE
- Make a list of people from scripture and history who are humble.
- What qualities helped you to decide who to put on this list?
Read Proverbs 22:4.
4 Humility is the fear of the Lord; its wages are riches and honor and life.
QUESTIONS
- According to Proverbs, what are the most important qualities one can have?
Read 1 Kings 21:27-29.
27 When Ahab heard these words, he tore his clothes, put on sackcloth and fasted. He lay in sackcloth and went around meekly.
28 Then the word of the Lord came to Elijah the Tishbite: 29 “Have you noticed how Ahab has humbled himself before me? Because he has humbled himself, I will not bring this disaster in his day, but I will bring it on his house in the days of his son.”
QUESTIONS
- In this passage what did Ahab do that God viewed as humbling himself?
- What principles about humility can be drawn from these verses?
- How would someone humble themselves in today’s world using these principles?
Read Genesis 5:21-24.
21 When Enoch had lived 65 years, he became the father of Methuselah. 22 After he became the father of Methuselah, Enoch walked faithfully with God 300 years and had other sons and daughters. 23 Altogether, Enoch lived a total of 365 years. 24 Enoch walked faithfully with God; then he was no more, because God took him away.
QUESTIONS
- How did Enoch live?
- What does it mean that God took him?
Read Luke 2:25-32.
25 Now there was a man in Jerusalem called Simeon, who was righteous and devout. He was waiting for the consolation of Israel, and the Holy Spirit was on him. 26 It had been revealed to him by the Holy Spirit that he would not die before he had seen the Lord’s Messiah. 27 Moved by the Spirit, he went into the temple courts. When the parents brought in the child Jesus to do for him what the custom of the Law required, 28 Simeon took him in his arms and praised God, saying:
29 “Sovereign Lord, as you have promised, you may now dismiss your servant in peace. 30 For my eyes have seen your salvation, 31 which you have prepared in the sight of all nations: 32 a light for revelation to the Gentiles, and the glory of your people Israel.”
QUESTIONS
- For what had Simeon spent most of his life looking?
- How did Simeon feel when he found what he was looking for?
- According to Simeon, what role was Baby Jesus destined to fill?
- Describe how Enoch and Simeon were humble.
- What difference did being humble make in the outcome of their lives?
Read Isaiah 57:15.
15 For this is what the high and exalted One says— he who lives forever, whose name is holy:
“I live in a high and holy place, but also with the one who is contrite and lowly in spirit, to revive the spirit of the lowly and to revive the heart of the contrite.
Read James 4:6.
6 But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.”
QUESTIONS
- What type of person does God want to dwell with?
- What are the advantages of being humble?
Read Isaiah 41:10.
10 So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
QUESTIONS
- How does God take care of His people?
- Does being humble mean that one must be a doormat for the powerful? Explain.
APPLICATION
- After looking at the previous scriptures, would you change the list of people whom you consider humble?
- Was Nebuchadnezzar humble? How about Elijah?
- What are the characteristics of a humble person?
- What characteristics keep people from being listed as humble?
- What does it mean to “humble oneself in the sight of the Lord”?
In Ephesians 4:1-3 (1As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received. 2 Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. 3 Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.) Paul describes what being humble looks like. Humbleness doesn’t mean that one is powerless, but it does mean that one views others with dignity, kindness, and love. It means being more concerned about others than oneself.
FOLLOW UP
During the coming week, using a concordance or an online concordance look up the words humble, humility, and meek. At the end of the week write a sentence or two describing how you would like to change your life to be more like the people or concepts you’ve discovered in scripture.
Lesson 2
SCRIPTURE PASSAGE
LEADER’S NOTE
For a Relational Bible Study (RBS) you’ll want to get into the Scripture passage and encourage the youth to imagine participating in the story while it’s happening. Then you will be able to better apply it to your own situation today.
You will need to ask God for the Holy Spirit to be present as your small group discusses the questions (no more than 3-6 people in a group is recommended). Start with the opening question. It is a personal question and the answer is unique for each individual. There is no right answer and nobody is an expert here, so don’t be surprised when you hear different responses. You are depending on the Holy Spirit to be present and to speak through your group. Say what God prompts you to say, and listen to what others share.
Take turns reading the chapter out loud. Follow that with giving the students some time to individually mark their responses to the questions (a PDF version of the handout is available as a download). This gives each person a starting point for responding when you start to share as a group. Next, begin the discussion by asking the students to share what they marked and why on each question as you work your way through. Feel free to take more time on some questions than others as discussion warrants.
Encourage each person in the group to apply what is discussed to their personal lives and to share with the group what they believe God wants them to do. Then ask them to pray that God will help each of them to follow through in doing so. Remind them to expect that God will show them ways to live out the message of this passage in the coming week, and that they are free to ask others in the group to help hold them accountable.
OVERVIEW
The Youth Sabbath School lesson for this week focuses on the religious reformers in Europe during the Christian Reformation, especially in the 16th century. It’s an amazing history of humility, courage, and faith. In fact, those three words come to the forefront of this week’s lesson.
Looking for an RBS (Relational Bible Study) about someone with humility, courage, and faith in Bible times, several examples come to mind. What comes to your mind?
For this week, we’ll look at God’s call to the young boy Samuel, someone with humility, courage, and faith. This familiar story about a child protégé stands as a rebuke to the religious powers in control during a time when personal interests took precedence over God’s interests. This happens repeatedly in human history. What do you expect?
As you go back farther in history than the 16th century Christian reformers to an Old Testament example of a reformer, emphasize that young people today are still called to exemplify humility, courage, and faith even when they might be in short supply around them. What do you expect? What do they expect? What does God expect?!
What Do You Expect?
Describe a time when things didn’t happen the way you expected.
Read 1 Samuel 2:12-3:21.
12 Eli’s sons were scoundrels; they had no regard for the Lord. 13 Now it was the practice of the priests that, whenever any of the people offered a sacrifice, the priest’s servant would come with a three-pronged fork in his hand while the meat was being boiled 14 and would plunge the fork into the pan or kettle or caldron or pot. Whatever the fork brought up the priest would take for himself. This is how they treated all the Israelites who came to Shiloh. 15 But even before the fat was burned, the priest’s servant would come and say to the person who was sacrificing, “Give the priest some meat to roast; he won’t accept boiled meat from you, but only raw.”
16 If the person said to him, “Let the fat be burned first, and then take whatever you want,” the servant would answer, “No, hand it over now; if you don’t, I’ll take it by force.”
17 This sin of the young men was very great in the Lord’s sight, for they were treating the Lord’s offering with contempt.
18 But Samuel was ministering before the Lord—a boy wearing a linen ephod. 19 Each year his mother made him a little robe and took it to him when she went up with her husband to offer the annual sacrifice. 20 Eli would bless Elkanah and his wife, saying, “May the Lord give you children by this woman to take the place of the one she prayed for and gave to the Lord.” Then they would go home. 21 And the Lord was gracious to Hannah; she gave birth to three sons and two daughters. Meanwhile, the boy Samuel grew up in the presence of the Lord.
22 Now Eli, who was very old, heard about everything his sons were doing to all Israel and how they slept with the women who served at the entrance to the tent of meeting. 23 So he said to them, “Why do you do such things? I hear from all the people about these wicked deeds of yours. 24 No, my sons; the report I hear spreading among the Lord’s people is not good. 25 If one person sins against another, God may mediate for the offender; but if anyone sins against the Lord, who will intercede for them?” His sons, however, did not listen to their father’s rebuke, for it was the Lord’s will to put them to death.
26 And the boy Samuel continued to grow in stature and in favor with the Lord and with people.
27 Now a man of God came to Eli and said to him, “This is what the Lord says: ‘Did I not clearly reveal myself to your ancestor’s family when they were in Egypt under Pharaoh? 28 I chose your ancestor out of all the tribes of Israel to be my priest, to go up to my altar, to burn incense, and to wear an ephod in my presence. I also gave your ancestor’s family all the food offerings presented by the Israelites. 29 Why do you scorn my sacrifice and offering that I prescribed for my dwelling? Why do you honor your sons more than me by fattening yourselves on the choice parts of every offering made by my people Israel?’
30 “Therefore the Lord, the God of Israel, declares: ‘I promised that members of your family would minister before me forever.’ But now the Lord declares: ‘Far be it from me! Those who honor me I will honor, but those who despise me will be disdained. 31 The time is coming when I will cut short your strength and the strength of your priestly house, so that no one in it will reach old age, 32 and you will see distress in my dwelling. Although good will be done to Israel, no one in your family line will ever reach old age. 33 Every one of you that I do not cut off from serving at my altar I will spare only to destroy your sight and sap your strength, and all your descendants will die in the prime of life.
34 “ ‘And what happens to your two sons, Hophni and Phinehas, will be a sign to you—they will both die on the same day. 35 I will raise up for myself a faithful priest, who will do according to what is in my heart and mind. I will firmly establish his priestly house, and they will minister before my anointed one always. 36 Then everyone left in your family line will come and bow down before him for a piece of silver and a loaf of bread and plead, “Appoint me to some priestly office so I can have food to eat.” ’ ”
The Lord Calls Samuel
3 The boy Samuel ministered before the Lord under Eli. In those days the word of the Lord was rare; there were not many visions.
2 One night Eli, whose eyes were becoming so weak that he could barely see, was lying down in his usual place. 3 The lamp of God had not yet gone out, and Samuel was lying down in the house of the Lord, where the ark of God was. 4 Then the Lord called Samuel.
Samuel answered, “Here I am.” 5 And he ran to Eli and said, “Here I am; you called me.”
But Eli said, “I did not call; go back and lie down.” So he went and lay down.
6 Again the Lord called, “Samuel!” And Samuel got up and went to Eli and said, “Here I am; you called me.”
“My son,” Eli said, “I did not call; go back and lie down.”
7 Now Samuel did not yet know the Lord: The word of the Lord had not yet been revealed to him.
8 A third time the Lord called, “Samuel!” And Samuel got up and went to Eli and said, “Here I am; you called me.”
Then Eli realized that the Lord was calling the boy. 9 So Eli told Samuel, “Go and lie down, and if he calls you, say, ‘Speak, Lord, for your servant is listening.’ ” So Samuel went and lay down in his place.
10 The Lord came and stood there, calling as at the other times, “Samuel! Samuel!”
Then Samuel said, “Speak, for your servant is listening.”
11 And the Lord said to Samuel: “See, I am about to do something in Israel that will make the ears of everyone who hears about it tingle. 12 At that time I will carry out against Eli everything I spoke against his family—from beginning to end. 13 For I told him that I would judge his family forever because of the sin he knew about; his sons blasphemed God, and he failed to restrain them. 14 Therefore I swore to the house of Eli, ‘The guilt of Eli’s house will never be atoned for by sacrifice or offering.’ ”
15 Samuel lay down until morning and then opened the doors of the house of the Lord. He was afraid to tell Eli the vision, 16 but Eli called him and said, “Samuel, my son.”
Samuel answered, “Here I am.”
17 “What was it he said to you?” Eli asked. “Do not hide it from me. May God deal with you, be it ever so severely, if you hide from me anything he told you.” 18 So Samuel told him everything, hiding nothing from him. Then Eli said, “He is the Lord; let him do what is good in his eyes.”
19 The Lord was with Samuel as he grew up, and he let none of Samuel’s words fall to the ground. 20 And all Israel from Dan to Beersheba recognized that Samuel was attested as a prophet of the Lord. 21 The Lord continued to appear at Shiloh, and there he revealed himself to Samuel through his word.
1. What made Eli’s sons evil?
- They didn’t take their role as priests seriously.
- Greed.
- Sexual promiscuity.
- They lacked humility, courage, and faith.
- Poor parenting by Eli.
- The contrast with Samuel.
- They were “PKs” (Priest’s Kids).
- They hadn’t chosen God for themselves.
- Other.
2. What made Samuel good?
- He was a miracle baby.
- Living at the tabernacle in Shiloh.
- Choosing the opposite of his negative role models.
- Practicing humility, courage, and faith.
- Eli’s influence.
- Samuel’s parents checked on him only once a year.
- Not being related to Eli or his sons.
- He continued his development with God and with people.
- Other.
3. What message did God send Eli through a prophet?
- You’re doing a great job as priest.
- You’ve put your family first, ahead of God—not good.
- You’re sitting around too much.
- I honor those who honor me, and vice versa.
- Your family will no longer serve as priests; they will die soon.
- I’m replacing you with a better priest.
- I’m replacing you with Samuel.
- You’re forgiven.
- Other.
4. Why did Samuel sleep near the ark of God (1 Samuel 3:3)?
- He wanted to be close to God.
- He had to sleep somewhere.
- This illustrates how lax Eli was with sacred things.
- God had told Eli to have Samuel sleep there.
- Samuel hoped he would receive a message from God.
- There was too much light around the seven-branched candlestick.
- Samuel knew Eli’s other sons wouldn’t be near.
- Other.
5. Why did Eli direct Samuel to converse directly with God?
- That’s the best way to commune with God.
- God had told Eli about this plan.
- Eli was training Samuel to perceive God’s voice.
- Samuel didn’t know what was happening.
- Eli didn’t know what was happening.
- God is always speaking, but we rarely listen.
- God rarely speaks, so we always need to listen.
- Other.
6. Put a ✔️ by messages you’d “Expect” or “Not Expect” from God.
Expect Not Expect
____ A. God loves you. ____
____ B. Jesus will return soon. ____
____ C. Judgment has started. ____
____ D. God’s people need to change. ____
____ E. Sexual promiscuity is a problem. ____
____ F. You have humility, courage, and faith. ____
____ G. You need humility, courage, and faith. ____
____ H. Other
7. Have you ever sensed that God has sent you a special message? If so, what was it?
8. What do you do when you get a message from God and:
You don’t like it.
You do like it.
It doesn’t matter much to you.
SUMMARY
From his earliest memory, Samuel knew he was a miracle baby. Would he also be a miracle boy, youth, and adult? While God’s supernatural power would make the difference, Samuel needed to engage in God’s plan. This required humility, courage, and faith, which were qualities and practices in short supply at the time. Samuel followed the same development as Jesus when he was a young person—growing in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and others (compare Luke 2:52 with 1 Samuel 2:26). Jesus calls young people today to do the same.
APPLICATION
Samuel heard God calling him, but he didn’t recognize it as coming from God. Does God have messages for you? How would you know it if God were talking to you? For the application ideas this week, try one of these, or let it spark other ways for you to apply this week’s Scripture to your life.
LISTEN—IN THE PAST
God has already spoken—multiple times. We have hundreds of years of God’s messages, written for our benefit. According to 1 Corinthians 10:11, Paul’s reminder of God’s people through the wilderness serves as an example for us about what to do and what not to do. We can learn from both. According to Hebrews 1:1-2, God has spoken in many ways throughout history, and His clearest message came through the example of Jesus.
- Refer back to God’s messages from the past. For the Israelites in the wilderness, check out some of the chapters in the book of Exodus.
- Listen to what God has already said.
- If you want examples from the life of Jesus, choose one of the Gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John).
- What messages has God already given?
- As you prayerfully consider these, ask the Holy Spirit to enable you to live by the messages God has already given.
LISTEN—IN THE PRESENT
The same Holy Spirit who inspired the Bible writers with God’s messages continues to be active today. One way is through communicating to us as we read or hear God’s messages from the past. Another way is a direct message for us right now. To “hear” God’s voice now could easily require some practice, just like it took Samuel a while to catch on when God initiated communication directly with him.
- One way for you to listen now for God’s voice is to meditate on Scripture, taking God’s message(s) and savoring them in your mind without other distractions.
- Another way is to simply be still and silent and wait for the Holy Spirit to send you a message.
- It may take minutes or even hours until you “hear” God’s voice, including verifying that the message does not in any way contradict the Bible.
- That’s when you need to return to question #8 in the RBS above.
INCREASE—PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, SPIRITUALLY, AND SOCIALLY
The long development physically, mentally, spiritually, and socially happens with regular habits and practices, sustained over time. Just as people work out physically, they need the same thing to develop spiritually. Social interaction can be very, very difficult. Practice, adjust, apologize, listen, understand, affirm, challenge, support, take risks. Those who plateau in their teen years miss the tremendous opportunity for wholistic development during a key phase of life. Samuel and Jesus both took advantage of this fertile time, even though we have only a few examples of what was happening at this stage of their lives.
- Develop great growth habits during this phase of your life.
- What you choose to do this coming week is one part of this development.
- Choose wholistic development by saying “Yes” to good things and “No” to things that won’t help your development.
- Indeed, you will need supernatural power to do this, and God’s interested in staying with you throughout the journey.


